"It was more than a photoshoot"

It was more than a photoshoot. It was, as you say, an experience. And one that was more emotional than I was expecting. But not at all in a bad way. From the moment we sat down to chat I knew this was the right decision for me. It was a moment that brought me closer to me, and I haven't seen her for a while, if ever. Your guidance and patience helped me overcome what I didn’t even know was there and I felt safe and free to express what I've never been able to anywhere else. That alone makes the shoot worthwhile. I stepped out of the shoot freer, less weighed down by expectation because I had been beyond brave, I'd been ME and that was amazing. She was there. The me nobody else could capture. Your talent as a photographer is obvious but your photos are astounding because of YOU. This experience is unique because you give everything to the women in your care and it comes across in the pictures you produce. After seeing my pictures I was completely blown away by who I saw in them. For the first time in my life I saw the me I see, not the one I want others to see, or the one I present to other people. It isn't even about how good your body looks, and you WILL look amazing, it's more about the power you can see in yourself now. The you that's been hiding but has always been there. Merv isn't producing sexy photos, that happens as a consequence of the space he creates for women, and what he then produces is so much more than sexy, its power. I saw my own soul in my photos, and that is a big thing to say but in those two hours I felt seen. It was extremely liberating. You will walk taller as a result of this experience and you will realise what was in you all along and it will be beautiful. Thank you isn't enough for the space you created, but it's all I have so thank you. I found her.

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"Working with Merv was a dream"

When I first came across Mervs page I was instantly excited, his work was romantic and sexy but not trashy and I knew that I had to take the opportunity. We first booked a call and Mervs energy instantly put me at ease. We spoke about consent, about boundaries and about what I wanted to create. Note that I said "I" because the shoot was truly about what I wanted and what I was comfortable with. When I got to the studio, we sat and chatted to get to know eachother a little more. Merv is fun to be around so the conversation flowed so well. Then we discussed outfits and what would work for the shoot. The rest was like hanging out with an old friend, he was encouraging and so positive. I had so much fun and felt so empowered and in control. I got my pictures back this week and I absolutely love them. I feel like an complete goddess! Thank you Merv for being so incredible xx

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"If you're thinking about it... do it."

Incredible. Honestly I cannot put into words how amazing Merv is and how this shoot changed my life. I haven't even had the pictures back yet and already my life has changed and my sex life has never been better. I cannot recommend it enough. You won't regret it. Thank you so much Merv for being your wonderful self. ❤️

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"Do it! Do it now!"

OMG what an experience! I'd been thinking about a boudoir photoshoot for a while and earlier this year finally the stars aligned and booked a session with Merv.

The entire process was a dream - from landing on the You at Yours website, to my first consultation, to the days leading up to the shoot, Merv was with me every step of the way. The day of the shoot will forever rank as a highlight of my life - fun and chill but empowering and uplifting all at the same time!

And then receiving the photos - wow! I thought I’d like them as much as I did when I first saw them but somehow I love them more now.

This has been such an unbelievable experience and cannot wait to repeat (already plotting for when I’m next in London next summer).

Thanks again for your work and all-around awesomeness Merv! And to anyone reading this who is still on the fence about booking a session - do it! Do it now!

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"Great experience."

For a lot of people this is a daunting thing to do. I'd been considering it for some time, and after coming across You at Yours, Mervyn made me feel comfortable to finally take the plunge. From start to finish, Mervyn was personable, supportive and made me feel as comfortable as possible. He guided me through every step of the way and took it at my pace. It truly was an empowering experience and I feel like if I did it again in the future, I'd go in with even more confidence and self. The photos are authentic and a genuine portrayal, and I'm so glad I finally did it!

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"Empowering & Fun. Best Experience. Thank you!!!"

How to put into words the incredible experience that having a shoot with Merv was. After following You at Yours for a couple of years on social media I finally bit the bullet and booked in a shoot earlier this month and it's one of the best things I've ever done. Not only do I have this overwhelming sense of empowerment for the sheer fact I actually did it, but I've gained so much more just through the conversations had with Merv before, during and after the shoot as well. On the actual day of my shoot he continuously put me at ease, was incredibly respectful throughout and was the ultimate hypeman/cheerleader! When I stepped out having changed into my first outfit he could sense my nerves and rather than rushing into the shoot we sat calmly and spoke for a good 10-15minutes until I relaxed more into my skin and was ready to begin. We talked all about my relationship with my body and what lead me to having one of these shoots and I honestly felt like I was confiding in an old friend. We laughed throughout and it was just such a liberating and fun day!
I never thought I could be the woman who I saw staring back at me when I finally saw my images... but now I know I am her and I'll remember this experience forever.

Thank you for giving me this and reminding me I already have the power I need to break down that brick wall I've built up over time.

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"From day one Merv has made me feel…"

From day one Merv has made me feel comfortable (not an easy task) not once did I feel pressured to do any poses I didn’t want to. I went in on the day of the shoot a shaking mess and came out feeling on top of the world… until the day before the photo reveal when again I went into panic mode, what if I hated the pictures, what if Those thoughts about myself were true? I sat there fear building up inside me to be faced with photos of me that I loved. I found myself wondering how do I react I have never liked a photo of myself let alone love 1or 54 lol. Amazing experience from start to finish I’m glad I chose you at yours. If you’re reading this and debating it I’d say just do it you won’t be disappointed it is so much more than a photoshoot. It’s like a therapy session It allows you to see who you really are not what you think you are . And to top it all off you have the fantastic Merv who makes you laugh keeps you calm and just makes the whole experience unforgettable.

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"Godly Talent..."

Being able to take beautiful pictures is a talent, BUT Merv’s godly talent in being able to put his client in the right mindset through deep yet smooth conversations is one of a kind.

I understand now how it wasn’t just a photo session, it was a therapy session that opened my eyes to my own feelings and realization of how lucky I really am.

Not to mention that it might have led to just the best and most intimate sex of my life!

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"Would recommend to every woman"

I had such a great experience - confidence is such a funny, fleeting thing, but I can honestly say that this shoot has made me feel more at home in my own skin, and more confident in so many ways. I was made to feel comfortable right from the start and throughout the process and the photos themselves - wow. They are high-quality, classy, powerful - it was so hard making a selection, but I wasn't made to feel rushed or pressured in any way which I appreciated. Would recommend You at Yours to every woman!

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"The best experience ever!"

This photoshoot was the most incredible experience ever! Mervyn is amazing!!!! I am truly grateful for everything he did and creating such a safe and encouraging space for me to be myself. My confidence is through the roof - if anyone has ever toyed with the idea - I would 1000% recommend!

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"It's one of the best things I've ever done."

How to put into words the incredible experience that having a shoot with Merv was. After following You at Yours for a couple of years on social media I finally bit the bullet and booked in a shoot earlier this month and it's one of the best things I've ever done. Not only do I have this overwhelming sense of empowerment for the sheer fact I actually did it, but I've gained so much more just through the conversations had with Merv before, during and after the shoot as well. On the actual day of my shoot he continuously put me at ease, was incredibly respectful throughout and was the ultimate hype-man/cheerleader! When I stepped out having changed into my first outfit he could sense my nerves and rather than rushing into the shoot we sat calmly and spoke for a good 10-15 minutes until I relaxed more into my skin and was ready to begin. We talked all about my relationship with my body and what lead me to having one of these shoots and I honestly felt like I was confiding in an old friend. We laughed throughout and it was just such a liberating and fun day!

I never thought I could be the woman who I saw staring back at me when I finally saw my images... but now I know I am her and I'll remember this experience forever.

Thank you for giving me this and reminding me I already have the power I need to break down that brick wall I've built up over time.

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"I have never felt so confident and wish i could do it all over again."

I wanted to do this as a gift to my husband for our 1 year wedding anniversary (paper) and I couldn't have chosen a better person to do it with.

Merv was incredible from start to finish, from my first call I knew that You at Yours was the company I wanted to do this with, he made me feel so positive and relaxed before we had even started. Merv made me realise that this wasn't just a gift for my husband but something for myself and he couldn't have been more right. I have never felt so confident and wish i could do it all over again.

If you're on the fence about doing this like I was, just do it you won't regret it trust me!

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"Go ahead, give it a go!"

Go ahead, give it a go! A boudoir shoot was the last thing I ever expected to do but after viewing Merv's photos I had to give him a call. Merv really puts in the time to understand you and tailors your experience to you. I am amazed with how comfortable I felt after talking to him and how empowered I felt after the shoot. I cannot recommend him enough and think if you are considering it you definitely should call him!

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"I cannot recommend You at Yours enough."

I dont even know where to begin. Yes I cannot recommend Mervyn ( the photographer) and his team enough. The whole experience from start to finish was effortless, reassuring and reaffirming the natural inner and outer beauty we all posses as women.

Mervyn is a warm and kind person, not to mention very funny. Very professional and knowledgeable definitely but his passion for women's body confidence and ensuring the photos represent the unique woman stands out the most.

As Mervyn and his team prepared me so well for the shoot, I felt excited and yes of course with a hint of butterflies in my stomach but that disappeared as soon I met Mervyn and the make up artist. We talked about anything and everything while my make up was being done. Like having a conversation with my best friend.

Mervyn's guidance and ensuring you feeling comfortable was a constant throughout the shoot which allowed me to relax more and more..The laughter and being able to be completely myself..the woman.

The shoot itself for me was like slowly peeling off layers ( yes literally too..LOL) that hide the true essence of who I am as a woman, connecting with feelings we women posses but have hidden.

The results were beyond my expectations, the images captured me, my story so well revealing a side of me that I knew was there but Mervyn brought it back to life..My story..my body

I cannot recommend You at Yours enough....Take a chance and do it..you wont regret it!!

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"Thank you Merv for helping me rediscover myself."

100/10.

Merv is an absolute gem of a human and really makes you take on this experience in such an amazing way. What started as a gift for my husband turned into the most incredible journey of self discovery. I felt 100% comfortable the whole time and Merv takes the time to discuss each step of the shoot before moving on, always ensuring I felt comfortable with all of it.

I would recommend this to every person on this earth.

Thank you Merv for helping me rediscover myself.

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"This shoot gives you the permission to be the beauty you are"

Honestly, if you are considering booking a shoot. DO IT. This shoot gives you the permission to let you lead with your body without thinking, worrying about what it looks like. Without restricting your own beauty, confidence and happiness from coming out. It gives you the permission to be the beauty you are. Merv is there to capture that feeling in the most magical way possible. He really sees beauty in every form and has an intuitive soul to help you find what your confidence is. He has an ear to listen to you as you go through your journey and he has a presence that is comforting and reassuring. Honestly, if there was ever a doubt in your mind that you can do this, with Merv you can! All you need is one moment, one tiny shred of confidence to contact him. Merv will do the rest, he will help you unearth that confidence hidden under your own layer of insecurity.

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