Why Might I Decline Your Booking?
Hey, how's it going?
Mervyn from You At Yours here. The only space where women can come and jump around butt-naked and leave confident. HAHA
Anyway, I wanna have a really quick word with you about why I may not accept your booking. I've had a few instances recently where I've had to say no to some clients because I just felt like they were doing this for the wrong reasons.
What I'm here to do is boost your body confidence ethically and safely. What some people want are photographs to receive validation from external sources. So, photos just for Instagram, for example, or photos for a partner exclusively. Now with that latter point, I know a lot of people come to me because they have a partner whose birthday is coming up or an anniversary or a wedding gift, and what I say to those people is, "You will get tons more out of this experience than your partner will." They will get some lovely photographs as an entry point but what they will get more than some pictures is a more outgoing, more confident, dare I say, more sexually liberated partner. I've had a lot of reports of people that they are in a relationship with and that's what they get.
What you really get is a firmer understanding of yourself. You get to overcome something that you are incredibly scared of. Understanding that being vulnerable can lead to greatness. Proof that you are powerful. You will get some photos, which would be great. But you will get to see yourself in a way that you may have never seen yourself before. And that is your truth.
And that's why when you bring the photos back into it, they are perfect because they act as a reminder that you are capable of so much more than you think you are.
So, I've had people tell me, they look at their photos before they go into a job interview or before they go on a date or before their wedding to be like, "Yes, I remember now I am incredible." And I just wanna say that.
So, if you're here hoping to get some photographs simply for the benefit of getting people to like you or for external validation, I just won't be working with you. I'm sorry, but I can't feed the monster. What I want for you is to step forward and say, "Okay, I'm ready to love me for me." And then I will be right behind you, every step of the way, I promise. Okay?
So let's do this together. If you're interested in working with me, book a call! And let's go from there, all right. Booking a call is imperative so you can understand a lot more about what's going on, just for your safety. You don't wanna show up and be half-naked with someone you've never met before. Don't do it. Okay. Take care, bye!
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